The Mistakes Young People Must Not Make Before Marriage
Marry now with the little you have. Don’t wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so they grow along with you. Grow with your spouse and kids and succeed with them. Start your life now as you might still not succeed at your target age.
Many people have waited to make so much money before they get married, years later money has refused to come, still no wife, no kids.
When you’ve found true love don’t hesitate waiting for money, it may mean waiting till eternity.
So many young guys are pretending not to be financially buoyant enough to marry but are already living couples life, so many girls are even wasting away on our streets as sex toys for men old enough to be their grandfather still they tell you they are not matured enough for marriage.
When you marry early, you get preoccupied with your spouse and not end up as “pubic utility ” for all and sundry, good enough your kids grow along with you. Stop looking for a “ready made” spouse, work your spouse’s success with him/her grow your wealth together it gives you a sense of belonging and you’ll have a say.
If you have means, please marry early, don’t wait till you see your friends’ kids graduating while you still have yours in kindergarten classes, don’t wait to be 60 years and you still have kids in elementary school, don’t have kids young enough to be your grandchildren.
Contentment comes not from much wealth but fewer wants, don’t wait to buy Range Rover Sport or build Mansions before you start you matrimony, ask your parents where and how they started, you’ll see that you’re even better off.
Trust me, it isn’t money that brings happiness but contentment, be happy with the little you’ve got, grow with your spouse and pray for more.
For the ladies, why wait?, when it’s even detrimental to your health to bear children late, why not do the needful while still at your prime?
Very many who are waiting for “Mr Rich” ended up as second wife, single parent, baby-Mama, very many never even married.
Don’t be deceived waiting for that man who can afford Peruvian wig, designer bags and cutest of wears, those guys are non existent else you’ll end up as money ritual material.
Please young guys, take my advice seriously, settle down early, don’t delay yourself waiting for a big society wedding, the ceremony is just few hours while marriage is lifetime, no matter how much you spend on wedding ceremony, yours won’t be the best and no matter how little you can afford, yours won’t be the worst, you’ll always be somewhere in-between, so why worry yourself?.
By PROFESSOR HASSAN ABUBAKAR